Funeral & Cremation Resources

Funeral & Cremation Planning

Planning a funeral or cremation — whether for yourself or someone you love? This section of our resource library brings together clear, practical guidance on funeral pre-planning, arranging a service at the time of need, and recording your final wishes for families across the United States and Canada.

Here you can work through step-by-step planning guides, understand the key decisions involved in arranging a funeral or cremation, weigh the costs of each option, and learn how to document and share your preferences so your family is never left guessing.

Whether you are planning ahead with time on your side or arranging a farewell after a recent loss, our guides are written to help you make calm, confident, and affordable choices — with dignity and without pressure.

A Practical Guide to Funeral Planning

Funeral planning means making clear, considered decisions about how a life will be honored — either in advance, as part of planning ahead, or at the time of need. When approached calmly, it relieves pressure on grieving families and ensures that a person’s wishes are respected.

Planning ahead vs. planning at the time of need

Planning at the time of need happens in the days after a death, often under emotional and time pressure. Planning ahead lets you make the same decisions calmly, compare options properly, and spare your family difficult choices later. Both are valid; planning ahead simply gives everyone more breathing room.

The key decisions you’ll make

Most funeral planning comes down to a few core choices: burial or cremation; whether to hold a formal service, a memorial, or a simple farewell; the provider you will use; and how you would like to be remembered. Each of these affects both the experience and the cost, and none needs to be elaborate to be meaningful.

Documenting and sharing your wishes

Decisions only help your family if they know about them. Write your wishes down — your preference for burial or cremation, the kind of service you would like, and any practical details — and tell the people who will be responsible. A clear, shared plan prevents confusion and disagreement at a painful time.

The benefits of planning ahead

Planning ahead removes guesswork for your family, allows unhurried comparison of providers and prices, and ensures your own preferences are followed. Importantly, planning ahead does not mean pre-paying — documenting and communicating your wishes carries most of the benefit on its own.

How DFS Memorials helps

DFS Memorials provides clear, independent guidance for families planning ahead or arranging at the time of need, and connects them with trusted, affordable cremation providers across the US and Canada — so planning leads to dignified, manageable choices.

The DFS Memorials Travel Protection Plan brings a simple & affordable funeral expense-planning product directly to families.  Conventionally, this assurance plan is sold by funeral planning agents within funeral homes ~ as part of a pre-need contract.   Today, DFS brings that product directly to you without the need to sign up for a funeral plan.

$450 One-time – lifetime enrollment for full protection for funeral / repatriation costs ~ should a death happen away 75 miles from your home.

Complete peace of mind protection for the ‘what if’ or an unexpected fatality when away.  Nobody wants to think it will happen….but it does.  Planning for this unpredictable possibility for a small enrollment can save your family thousands of dollars and days of unnecessary stress.

 

FAQs About Funeral Planning

What does funeral planning involve? Funeral planning means deciding how a life will be honored — choosing burial or cremation, the type of service or memorial, the provider, and any personal touches — either in advance or at the time of need.

Should I plan my funeral in advance? Planning ahead is worthwhile for most people. It lets you make decisions calmly, compare providers without pressure, and spare your family difficult choices during grief. It is entirely optional, but it removes a great deal of stress later.

What decisions do I need to make? The main ones are burial or cremation, whether to hold a formal service or a simpler memorial, which provider to use, and how you would like to be remembered. Each can be as simple or as personal as you wish.

How do I make sure my wishes are followed? Write them down clearly and share them with the people who will be responsible for your arrangements. A plan that no one knows about cannot help — communication is as important as the plan itself.

Do I need to pre-pay to plan ahead? No. Planning ahead and pre-paying are separate. You can document and share your wishes without paying anything in advance, and that alone gives your family most of the benefit.

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Last Reviewed by Sara Marsden-Ille — Editor & funeral consumer advocate: May 2026